hey, what's wrong with

- submitted by geezer on 02/19/2007

hey, what's wrong with dating some 75 year old. give him some viagra and you'll forget those actuaries forever.

i'm a realtor and i resent

- submitted by Anonymous on 02/19/2007

i'm a realtor and i resent your insult of actuaries. i wanted to be one but i failed all my testsd and became a realtor.

seriously, give realtors a try. we're not all s**m bag.

not funny. i'm in same

- submitted by cara on 02/19/2007

not funny. i'm in same situation outside nyc. i've gone on more blind dates with dull me, it makes me wonder how anybody in the suburbs managed to create houses or streets or towns. they're that stupid boring.

i've learned to read again. could be worse.

i'm outside boston. also

- submitted by linda on 02/19/2007

i'm outside boston. also divorced with kids.

for me it was tough in the beginning. i used online dating, friends, tried to establish a whole network.

i know what you mean about actuaries. it felt grim with dull dull dull guys. then i met a guy, at victoria's secret! he's great.

can't say i'd recommend vc for everybody. but go to places where the guys aren't desperate, worked for me by accident.

i'm married and divorced

- submitted by cindi on 02/19/2007

i'm married and divorced from an actuary. the guy made telephone polls seem interesting.

choose realtors over actuaries.

we've formed a single womans

- submitted by wisewoman on 02/19/2007

we've formed a single womans group in our town. a whole bunch of us. remember jerry maguire, all the women sitting around trashing men.

we're the oppositie. we like men. just not the dullards around our town. (westchester ny) single guys here have a lot of money (wall st) and ladies in our group aren't moved by that.

we network with other friends, some of us have met some ok guys.

find other single women. don't act or be desperate. it'll come when you try the least hardest

i want to join one of those

- submitted by thedude on 02/19/2007

i want to join one of those single women's groups. i'm single, extremely interested, live in the ny-ct area and available to speak at any meeting.

and i'm not an actuary or realtor. i'm an unemployed zoologist. honest.

move to a town where it's

- submitted by nyackgal on 02/19/2007

move to a town where it's not all wall st drones. go into the city and meet people there. learn to satisfy yourself, if you know what i mean.

older men are fine. if

- submitted by outsideCHI on 02/19/2007

older men are fine. if you've got a decent body, they'll worship you. if not, work out. i love love being tended to by these geezers. they think if you're under 40 you're a kid, and i like that.

i love it here. there are so

- submitted by caryn3 on 02/20/2007

i love it here. there are so few appealing women i feel like it's picking apples out of barrel, or whatever you call it.

i lived in nyc for 15 years. great slick self-absorbed guys. f-them. i love guys who know there are people other than themselves in the world and if that means they're not making 7 figures or driving bmws, all great.

life is short.

went to a bar the other

- submitted by desperateinny on 02/20/2007

went to a bar the other night in westchester. there were 4 grandfather types and a dog (i kid you not).

i chose the dog.

i hold scrabble parties!! i

- submitted by laneg on 02/20/2007

i hold scrabble parties!!

i have no interest in men who can't play.

amazing how many men and ladies come. we drink and have fun and it's become a hit in my town, outside d.c.

we play naked scrabble.

- submitted by nakedscrabble on 02/20/2007

we play naked scrabble. invite only. believe me it gets the guys. and some girls!

got to be creative. all of us have a good time. have also played naked pictionary believe it or not.

i'm single, not divorced,

- submitted by happysingle on 02/20/2007

i'm single, not divorced, and very happy out here in northern delaware.

i went to school in philadelphia and nyc. i love my house, my friends. how do i meet people? online! plus, at art classes, concerts, cafes. a million places.

smile and don't be judgmental. not what what's his name said -- bobby mcpherin? -- but close enough

i'm single, not divorced

- submitted by babemagnet on 02/20/2007

i'm single, not divorced and, yes, a babe magnet.

i'm not rich and not an actuary or realtor. there are plenty of us magnets out her in long island. stop by. exit 23 expressway.

advice: 1. stop thinking

- submitted by staycool on 02/20/2007

advice: 1. stop thinking about it. 2. be open to opposites 3. meditate

i've been married 3 times. divorced 3 times. wouldn't leave burbs for a million $ or men

advice: 1. stop thinking

- submitted by staycool on 02/20/2007

advice: 1. stop thinking about it. 2. be open to opposites 3. meditate

i've been married 3 times. divorced 3 times. wouldn't leave burbs for a million $ or men